New Year's COMMITMENT

You know...I've never really been one for New Year's Resolutions. They always seemed so cheesy to me, and I always thought that if I only made goals at the start of a new year, nothing would ever get done. Like, ever. I mean, I should always be working and growing, right? Right.

However. I am realizing the value that lies within the basic idea of the New Year's Resolution. Due to the nature of the holiday, inevitably we all think about the idea at one point or another. Whether that means you sit down and write out your resolutions, or it's just a fleeting thought recognizing that it's a "thing".

I'm noticing more and more how often I hear people talking about something they "wish" or "hope" will happen. And too little do I hear the words of action that will make these things happen. I've totally been guilty of this. Still am. So this is something I am committed to changing for this upcoming year. There are so many things that I "wish" and "hope" will happen...but just wishing and hoping isn't going to get it done. So I am going to have to work to make them happen.

The New Year can bring about some great personal reflection, if you let it. Take a good, hard look in the mirror. What was successful in the last year? What was not so successful? Be proud of the good moments! And take the mistakes and stumbles you made, and allow yourself to GROW from them! What can you do to make those weaknesses work in your favor instead of against you?

I think a big reason why people despise New Year's Resolutions is because of a fear of failure. We all have it. But you know what? The time is going to pass by you whether you try or not. And chances are, no one is going to judge you for your efforts. Chances are, you'll be admired for it. And even if you're not, does that really matter? Think about it. How are other people's opinions affecting your life? Call me crazy, but I believe that how you feel about yourself is more important than what someone else thinks about you. Life is so much more enjoyable and productive when you're not constantly worrying about how you appear in the world.

So forget anyone else for a minute. Shut out the world. The loud, busy, always-looking-out-for-number-one, dog-eat-dog, crazy world. What do you want? What are some things that you want to achieve? What are some things that would even just be nice to have? Don't worry about what it takes to get there. Just imagine the life that you want. I'll give you a minute.
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Got it? Have you painted your picture? Is it solidified in your mind? Good. Now, write it down. In words, in a picture, whatever works for you. Just get it out in the world in a tangible form. Go ahead...I'll wait for you again.
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Done? You sure you got it all? I don't want you to miss anything. This is important! Got it? Okay good. Oh, it's just beautiful! I love it!

Okay, next I want you to think for a second...do you believe you're worth having all these things? If you don't believe it as this moment, I want you to get to the point where you do. Because I tell you what...you're an incredible human being! You've got SO much to offer! And you deserve everything you've ever wanted!! So do whatever it takes to know that you deserve it all! If you don't think you can do that, come talk to me. Seriously. I will help you see it. Because I can guarantee you're worth it.

Alright. So the next thing I need you to do is write down the steps you have to take to earn these things. Because that's the thing...you do have to earn them. No one is just going to pop out and hand you your dream. Hate to break it to ya, but that's not how this works. You do have to work. If you're not willing to do that, then you can go ahead and close out of this page and go about your life. I do not believe in instant gratification. I believe good things take time. That's why it takes 9 months to make a baby. Or why you have to wait for the dough to rise before you cook it. Or why we have 365 days every year to achieve our dreams. The work you put into it makes it that much sweeter. So break down your goals into baby steps. If you're not sure what it's going to take, learn what it will take!! Do your research! Don't wait around! There's just no sense in that!

If you're still with me, reading this, I totally commend you. I know I can get on my soap box sometimes. But I just really want everyone to be able to reach their potential. That used to be one of my biggest fears...that I wouldn't fulfill my potential. And I used to let that hold me back. Which totally doesn't make any sense. Anyway...take these things that you've written down, and put them in a place where you will see them every day. Take the time to actually look at them and think about them, and to move forward on them every single day.

And that's all I've got. I'm starting a new challenge group on January 12th. This is seriously the best way to be held accountable to reach your goals. If this is something that appeals to you (and it totally should...seriously), please let me know. I would love to talk to you about your goals and even more so, to help you reach them!! If it sounds scary to you...GOOD!! It should scare the crap out of you!! So. Let's talk :)